Thursday, February 26, 2009

Complexity of Relationships

My thoughts for today (02/26/09)

As I go into my second year technically being single, because all the little relationships I had really never counted, sorry to those that hurts! I reflect and examine what I see going on around me, what I see is insane....

I have noticed the following trends (on Myspace or otherwise), especially as it relates to gay folks:
  • peoples status go from "Single" to "In a Relationship"
  • people also go from "In a Relationship" to "Single" within a month
  • of course this is well after the "long term commitment" of exactly about a month and/or mainly less to be exact
  • Upon transforming from "Single" to "In a Relationship" they post a status message giving everyone a chance to see their new found "glory hole" before they fall straight on their face, either realizing they entered something too big for their britches or that this person isn't so great
  • Of course, thereafter, they are then depressed, hungover, or moody - because of this person not full well realizing it was their own stupidity that got them into this mess in the first place.
  • I suppose opposites attract, however, if you are polar opposite there must be something besides the "personality change" to actually attract you. Being attracted to the size of the meat is insufficient and will fail at best.
  • Although you have known someone, you don't know them until you live with them, so take it slow! It won't be a "hard on" kill if you do not.
  • Just because you find someone that meets your ocular expectations - do not assume it was meant to be or that you are the deepest of love. If you do this, you should jump of a bridge and kill yourself.
  • My favorite - people go Engaged to Single and back to Engaged. Geez! And I thought I was the one who needed help.

Yes, I know - I am right. There is nothing you can do about it.

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